This is But I realized that identifying the problem is only half the battle.
You invest mental energy in making sure things go a certain way. I have been guilty of stressing over past relationships. Things started out fun and light, I got excited about the possibilities…and then became scared that my imagined future wouldn’t come to be…and then panic set in.
Women look for the intimacy and financial stability they didn’t get in their previous relationship(s)—but they are not willing to be a “nurse with a purse” and they will reject men who are sexually impotent or ailing physically or financially.
If you are looking to attract a man who cares for himself and his body, you should care about yourself and your body.
You also will notice you naturally feel better when you look your best, leading to increased inner confidence around men.