Most men look at what they say as a sort of promise or commitment, even if it’s an emotionally based discussion.So saying what seems like a simple three words can actually like a huge risk, promise or commitment to a guy.Here’s one thing that all of my work with smart, strong, successful women has brought to my attention – front and center: It’s not easy being a smart woman. The more you have going for you, the less likely you are to settle for less. Having high standards means that dating can be a challenge, and that most men are going to fall short.
In China, love and partnership are very important and once a sincere woman commits to her lifemate or partner she really does so for life.You’re seeing a great guy and you THINK you’re getting close, but then he suddenly pulls away and you have NO IDEA what happened. She’d put it together in a few hours over a few glasses of wine with her girlfriends. Because when you compare the number of factors that determine whether a guy is date-worthy with the number of factors that determine whether you’re date-worthy, it’s night and day. Men ask two questions: Do I want to sleep with you? All of this is just a long way of stating what every man knows – and most women don’t: We are not nearly as concerned with your merits as much as how you make us FEEL. If you’re fun and easygoing, it makes us enjoy our time together. It makes us want to keep you around forever and ever. My husband has a male friend who broke up with his girlfriend because supposedly, she wasn’t up to his intellectual level.